Heart-Skip

With his cold stethescope against my chest he hears it, "Ga-gong, ga-gong, ga-gong." Puzzled, he turns to me and says, "Now I'll place this on your back and I'd like you to take two deep breaths every time I move it around."

"Ok...," I thought. But then suddenly, I realize something was up (and it's never a good thing at the doctor's office). "No one has ever taken this long before," I said to myself.

As he removed the earpierce passed his grayish-white hair he asked, "Has anyone ever told you, you had an irregular heartbeat?"

"Uh...no," I said confused.

He gets the stethescope, places it in my ears and tells me to listen closely for 15 seconds. One, one thousand. Two, one thousand. Three, one thousand...It felt like forever.

"Ga-gong, ga-gong, ga-gong...skip...ga-gong, ga-gong, ga-gong...skip," I heard. A slight shift in sound, but it was there and I was completely clueless to it ever being there this whole time. After all these doctors examined me and told me I was perfectly normal, this one took just a few more seconds of his time to tell me otherwise.

I left the clinic stunned at the thought of needing to get a second opinion. I figured I'll make the appointment, get my usual result, and put this all behind me. Well, until today.

I sat on the patient's table, impatiently. Crunching the tissue paper with every anxious move I make. The nurse comes in and checks my vital signs. She takes my wrist and says, "Ok, now for your pulse."

She starts her stop watch.

"Wait," she says. "This doesn't seem right," she continued.

She restarts her stop watch.

Her facial expression changes. She writes some notes on her hand. "Did you know you have an irregular pulse?" she asks casually.

"Ugh, stop it with the irregularities, what the fuck is wrong with me?!" I wanted to scream.
But all that came out was, "Uh...no."

She steps out and tells me to hang tight for the doctor. A petite, Asian woman enters. She seemed like she was in a rush until she checked my heartbeat. Once again, the same reaction. This was becoming a routine:

Step 1: Check.
Step 2: Wait.
Step 3: Look puzzled.
Step 4: Check again.
Step 5: Smile so patient doesn't panic.
Step 6: Ask, "Has anyone ever told you that you have an irregular heartbeat?"

Before I knew it, I was lying half-naked and exposed with ten little stickies on my chest.
"Well this is comfortable," I thought to myself as the technician hovered over me, looking more and more nervous as he untangled the attached electrical cords.

"Is everything ok for you?" he asked politely.

"Gee," I thought again.

"Uh, yup. This won't hurt will it?" I asked just to make conversation.

"Nah," he said as he pushed some buttons on the machine.

Fortunately, the results were normal. Unfortunately, that meant shit. It turns out that my heart may have actually found its lost beat during the commotion so the doctor requested some blood work to be done. Oh, and by the way this particular clinic I chose no longer does blood draws so they gave me a sheet of paper with at least twenty clinics to choose from (none of which I was at all familar with) and sent me on my way to draw a single tube of blood.

Meanwhile back at the lab, things were slow. Hmmm...

The nurse was sitting back in her recliner talking to one of her kids on her cellphone. It turns out he or she didn't do their homework. After a few minutes, she noticed I was there for her to do her job.

"My, what little veins you got there," she said cheerfully.

The funny, well not so funny, thing is that I draw blood for a living too. And it saddens me that now that the table's are turned, I get this.

So now I have a bruise on my left arm growing bigger each day and still no idea if my heartbeat is truly irregular.

Love to Hate, Hate to Love

I cherish the very few friends I have, but this in no way means that I will allow myself to be taken advantaged of. Even if it may seem at times that I choose to step down to see how far the person will walk over me. Maybe in some way I'm an emotional masochist. I love catching up even if at one point we were "enemies." What the hell does that mean anyway? Love to hate 'em, hate to love 'em. Well, in that case I have too many...

If you are still in my life, it is because you choose to be and I enjoy having you here. If you have not heard from me, it is because you stopped calling, texting, emailing, my-spacing... Or maybe lost track with your busy schedule. Or just simply forgot to say, "Hello." Please understand that I am not angry nor confused. And although I am saddened as to why this may have happened, I just do not care anymore to fight over petty things. I have always been easy to find. If you are wondering where I have been, it is because you have not taken the time to check in. You know where I am. I never left.

Happiness Isn't...

What Hurts More Than A Broken Heart?

A lost pet.

A friend's betrayal.

A terrible investment.

A life-altering accident.

An incurable illness.

Being a disappointment.

Failing when you really tried your best.

Losing your home in a single storm.

The death of someone that meant the world to you.

To Love Another

"The sexiest thing is trust..."communication and in any relationship, the ability to just relax and quit worrying about the little things. Everything makes so much sense on the outside looking in. Fixing someone else's problems seems so much easier than dealing with one's own. Sometimes I wish that I could step out of my shell and just let it all go.

And what is it really that gets me to overanalyze to such a degree? To question every bit of information? To act out just to see a reaction? To predict the worst case scenario? Paranoia? Maybe. Low self-confidence? Could be. Yet it's the fact that my instincts show what appears to be isn't always what it is and the intentions of another is not always quite so innocent. So I don't let things sit long enough to see what happens next. And unfortunately this can also be my downfall. Yes, this is dramatic, but I've been there, done that too many times to dismiss what bothers me to cater to the norm. It's unfair that the past comes back to haunt me and the present must piece me back together again.

But I'm learning that it's not anyone's problem, but my own that I need to fix for myself.

I write how I feel and if it's sad, it's because I'm sad. And rarely is it ever "perky" so there's no surprise when I take a few moments of my life to vent. I do appreciate anyone who takes any of their time away from their day to check in and read about me, but please know that I'm ok. I just like to share my emotions out loud (a lot).

Relationships are an obstacle course for me. I try to be as cautious as possible before taking the first steps. Then there's that word: "commitment." It isn't easy trusting someone just enough to let them (and only them) in. Obviously, it never works out as planned. No knight in shining armor. No white picket fence. No fairytale endings. Shit happens. Life happens. I'm selfish and want everything, but I don't believe in settling down to get it.

He is with me like I am with him because we love each other, not because we need each other.

Beautiful Collision

Hot tears. Dark room. Nothing, but the glow of my cell phone. 6:45am. Just a bad dream, but I couldn't shake it off so easily. I lay there for a moment recollecting my thoughts as the images ran through my head like a rapid wild fire hoping that the water pouring down my face would put out the flames.

But my mind wouldn't let me rest that easily either...

I stood in front of a toy store, staring at my reflection in the large display window. Wooden airplanes of all sorts of colors dangled above while a miniature train set spun in a circle beneath them. It seemed like a peaceful town, mid-day and kind of chilly. I wore a black raincoat and a pair of jeans and felt the soft fabric as I placed my hands in my pockets. A cool breeze, trailing a soft scent of fresh bread, brushed passed me.

He came out to greet me, tall and slender with a boyish grin. I smiled, ready to grab him with open arms. Until suddenly she followed closely behind him, her golden brown hair slightly covering her face.

"Hey, you ready?" she asked (as if my purpose for being there was to wait for them).

"Ummm...." I stalled not knowing what I should be ready for.

"You said you wanted to shop for presents, silly," she explained, pointing to the toy store.

"Uh, o-oh ok..." I stuttered, playing along.

She shook her head and giggled, turning to him. He bent down and said, "Love you," giving her a sweet kiss on the lips.

My heart stopped.

"That's my kiss," I said to myself. Confused, I turned the other direction and just walked away.

"Hey, where ya goin'?" she said.

I started to run.

They followed.

I saw a small cafe up ahead and made my way to the back patio. I turned to see if they were still behind me, but saw no one. I ordered a salad.

The waitress had her hair pulled back in a messy ponytail. She was chewing gum and seemed friendly as she spoke.

"Not very hungry, huh?" she asked.

"Not really, just had a craving." I responded, my voice a little shaky.

The salad came in a small, clear plate with dressing on the side.

"Sure that's all ya want, hon?" she asked politely.

But before I can answer her, I see them sitting side by side at a booth near the back entrance. I got up, holding my salad plate in my hands, and made my way to them.

"So I see you guys are comfortable," I said sarcastically.

They just looked up at me as if I was someone else.

"What in the hell has gotten into you?!" he demanded.

Without warning, I dumped my salad on his lap and sat down directly across from them, crossing my hands to prevent it from trembling.

"What the hell has gotten into me? You're supposed to be following me and instead you're sitting here!" I shot back.

"Why should we run all over the place trying to catch you when all we have to do is sit here and let you come to us? Either you'll be calm enough to talk or of course, the usual. You can throw your food at me...," he retorted, as he picked up some lettuce and plopped in on the table.

I slapped him hard across the face as she got up in shock.

"What the hell?!" she screamed.

"Don't you for one sec even think about it," I said, pointing at her.

He just sat there, unaffected.

"You need to calm down and tell us what's wrong?" she said.

I left not realizing I haven't paid for my meal. Halfway down the block, I decided to turn back.

"I already caused a scene, but the waitress didn't deserve that," I said to myself.

People were staring at me as I re-entered the restaurant. My waitress was at the cash register as he handed her a $20 bill. I yanked it from her hands and threw it to Ms. Golden Brown. It landed in her V-neck sweater.

"There goes your tip," I said.

The waitress swiped my card and commented, "Hey whatever happened to happily ever after?"

"It doesn't exist," we all said in unison.

As soon as we stepped out of the restaurant I couldn't hold it in anymore.

"Who the hell are you with?" I demanded.

"What are you talking about?" he questioned. "We say we love each other all the time and you never had a problem with that before!" he continued.

"I don't care about that. That phrase gets used and abused all the time that it seems like nothing more than a casual hello these days," I explained.

"It's the KISS!" I yelled to the top of my lungs. People stopped in mid-chew and rushed out to see what the commotion was about.

"You kissed her the way you used to kiss me. It was so sweet and genuine that it even took her breath away! The way I once felt long ago..." I trailed off.

I could see from the corner of my eyes that she nodded in agreement, in shock that I even noticed the subtle change in her facial expression.

"Yes, it was." she said, blushing.

I cried.

Hot tears. Dark room. Nothing, but the glow of my cell phone. 6:45am.

Sweet Dreams

After 27 years of using whatever second-hand mattress thrown at me, I finally bought my very first real bed. No more squeaky springs and dents! No more sharp-edged, unreliable frames! No more backaches and heartaches! It is time to learn how happy people sleep. Goodnight.

Think Happy Thoughts

• When the alarm goes off and I realize I have nowhere to be but in bed.
  


• Smelling the fresh breeze after a rain storm.
  


• Cantaloupe shavings.
  


• Drinking ice cold water after a long, hot day.
  


• Eating ice cream at night.


• Listening to a song I haven't heard in a while.


• Sprinkling powder in-between my toes.


• Lemon loaf cake and a latte.


• Hot coffee in a ceramic mug.


• 1950's diners.


• Chocolate milkshakes.
  


• Finishing an impossible project.


• Parking my car in a shady spot.
  


• A raise.


• A smile.


• A thank you.


• A compliment.
  


• A hug.


• A kiss.


• An "I love you."

Loud Bang, Bright Light

Dream 05/11 -12/2007

I stood in front of a panel of judges. I had no idea what I was on trial for nor what I did wrong. Only that I was in a square room with wooden flooring, sitting on a single stool with a table and five chairs lined up directly in front of me.

An older woman with gray hair and glasses spoke first. "Well, so we meet again," she said calmly.

I scratched my head and squirmed around in my chair, surprised that it spun around.

"I have no idea what you're talking about, ma'am. I've never seen you before," I answered.

She smiled, looking at her peers. An African-American man with a short beard and thick eyebrows returned her gesture and looked over to me.

"We know you wouldn't remember us, but we know your story quite well..." he trailed off.

A younger Asian woman with a slick ponytail finished his sentence by saying, "What he means is you've been here before...in your dreams, but this time it's for real."

"Ok...you've managed to confuse me even more. I'm sorry. Where am I? What is this place?" I asked, trying to remain calm.

"Middle-ground," they replied.

It appears that right before you die, your spirit leaves its physical form to visit a place where it can decide your fate in the after-life. There are a few options to choose from, however at the time of your decision all you know is one thing: what your last senses will experience on Earth.

(1) Loud bang, bright light (sound and sight) - a thunderous boom followed by a white glare

(2) With the sweet, comes the sour (taste) - two different flavors you have never tried before

(3) Hurt (touch) - physical pain

The experience slowly came back to haunt me. The image was hazy, but I can make out a few little details. I was lying on a hospital bed, wearing a blue patient gown. A series of beeping noises hovered over me and I swore I could make out sobbing but from whom, I couldn't tell. A woman in a white suit placed her hand on my forehead and closed my eyes. Suddenly, a massive boom echoed throughout the room. My ears grew numb and the silence was overbearing. I carefully opened my eyes to see what was around me, but a stream of white light seeped into my eyelids and drowned out all the color.

And now I'm in this room where a panel of judges sit before me.

(To be continued...)

Deja Vu

It happened in my head and before I knew it, there I was. Nightmares do come true.

It was windy. The sun crept up just enough to show itself over his rooftop as I carefully made my way up his curved driveway. The loose pavement rustled underneath the soles of my shoes. He opened his door and stepped out, scratching the back of his head as if saying, “uh-oh not again.”

I just stared at him, brushing strands of hair away from my face so that he won’t miss my eyes. He knew something was up. He put both hands in his pockets as we met half way.

“Hey,” he said.

“How could you do this to me?” I asked in disbelief, a cold shiver sent chills up my spine.

“So this is it then,” he said, completely avoiding my question.

“Guess so,” I uttered.

I turned away and walked back to my car knowing in my heart it would be the last time I felt real love for him. I woke up quietly sobbing.

A month or so passed.

I was at work. An unsettling feeling hovered over me like a gray cloud ready to burst. I paid no attention to it at first, but for some reason I couldn’t shake it off no matter how hard I tried. It was lunchtime. I put my leftover Alfredo pasta in the microwave and as it spun, I dialed his number. Busy.

A minute went by. The food was hot. I dialed again. Busy. I lost my appetite. No word from him last night. No call that morning…Now busy. Someone else had his attention. I couldn’t take it. Dial the heart-wrenching “323.” Then there in the middle of the break room, as my pasta dried, I knew.

“Hello,” he muttered.

He knew it was me even before he finally answered my call.

“You did it again,” I said.

He sighed. I broke down in tears, grabbed my stuff and left. As I drove, sad songs blasting from my car, the sun began to set.

I parked in front of his wooden fence, stepped out and began to walk up.

Déjà vu.

Insomnia

It is half past 5am. The sun is still asleep and after having my eyes closed for several hours, you would think I would be asleep too. A new year has begun and it's about time I start facing my fears. The candle flickered just enough to cast dancing shadows to keep me company. And as I tossed and turned, I realized peace will be far from me tonight.

I used to have reoccurring nightmares of being lost in the woods or falling off a tall building or my ultimate favorite, chased by a killer in the dark. All of which share one thing in common: I'm utterly and completely alone.

Sometimes I would wake up unsure if I'm truly awake. I'd dig my nails into the palm of my hands and as the pain shot through my skin, I'd still think twice if my eyes were really open. I'd check around me.

Check to see if my boyfriend had a pulse. Clench tightly to my comforter to see if I could feel the feathers between the stitches. Then, through careful consideration, I'd slowly get up and let my barefeet grace the carpet before making my way to the door. I knew that if anything were hard to fake, it's the cold air seeping through the cracks, making their way in-between my toes.

Cold air.

My toes start to wiggle.

Sigh of relief.

Dream A Nightmare

Dreams are moments where we can do or say anything without suffering any consequences. A horror movie taught me that. I was ten when I first tried to control it and here's what happened.

FLY

I stand motionless. Stuck out in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by high, sharp boulders. Creepy sounds and red eyes darted from every direction. I panic, slowly backing up against the rocks. Its surface feels smooth against my skin. I pinch myself. Nothing. No pain. "Shit, I must be dreaming and I can’t wake myself up," I muttered underneath my breath. I shake my head in disbelief. Then the sounds grew louder. The eyes came closer revealing their monstrous form. I shut my eyes and open them again. Still stuck. I fall backwards refusing to face it. I start to cry. Its hot breath penetrates the back of my neck. I scream and hear silence. My mouth is frozen. Then, almost as if I’ve done it before, I stretch my arms out, flap it up and down as fast as I could and begin to float. Higher and higher. And then I was safe.

ONE LOUD BANG

"Just shoot 'em in the head...one time...that's it," these words spoken by a stearn male voice echoed in my head as I stood there holding the gun. It felt cold against my hands. Sweat dripped down the sides of my face. I wiped it away with my shoulder. The target turned to face me. Startled, I try to steady my aim. I don't know which one of us looked more afraid. He was young with light, brown eyes and pale skin. His hands trembled in the air. "Please...," he stuttered. "Shut up, just shut up," I shouted, suprised at my own volume. My fingers began to swell. The metal numbed my skin. He got up slowly. "Stay still or I'll shoot," I said, calmly placing my index finger against the trigger. "You've never done this before," he muttered. "What," I asked. He moved in closer, the look of fear leaving him with every step he takes. "You've never done this before," he said clearly with a sly grin as if he was now holding the weapon at me. I didn't move then suddenly a loud bang woke up my nerves. He fell forwards.

POOR "PINATA"

His face, full of excitement, ran into the room to grab some attention. People poured out through the sliding, back door to get a glimpse. I stayed behind the protective glass. A green, clunky, run-down piece of junk jeep dangling from a rope balanced over a large staircase as he and his boys, beer can in hand, tried their best to kick it over without knocking it down. Sand and dust drizzled over the railing. The smell of burnt rubber against the concrete steps permeated the cool night air. Cheers from the crowd pumped up their egos as the rope continued to strangle the poor tree branch.

Scout

Let me share with you just what kind of tricks my mind plays on my heart. Once again, it happens most often when I sleep...

A pile of laundry sits next to the newly refinished bathtub complete with gold fixtures. Large, thick glass windows surround the beige, marble floors. With a touch of a single button, the lights dim while soothing music spills out of the hidden speakers in each corner of the room. Warm water slowly pours into the tub as I sink both feet in, pushing the bubbles with my toes. I pull the laundry closer to me and began folding a pair of khaki shorts as he enters the room.

I smile, but his face remains expressionless. "Hey," he said.

"Baby, jump in the water is just warming up," I say with enthusiasm.

"I'm not staying long," he says coldly, looking out the window.

"C'mon, it'll be fun," I said.

He looks at me, unamused with my excitement.

"No," he said bluntly.

I got up so quickly I almost slipped, grabbed a towel off the hanging rack and threw it on the ground.

While frantically patting my feet dry, I yell, "Why don't you ever just give in for once and do what I wanna do for a change?"

His eyes began to shrink. His lips slowly tightening up. I knew then his temper was about to flare up, but I couldn't control myself.

"Who the hell put a stick up your ass anyway?” I mumbled.

He ran over to me and kicked the clean clothes into the tub.

With a sly grin he said calmly, “Guess, they’re dirty again.”

I squat down, pulling the soaked shirts and pants out, tossing them over to his neatly placed khaki shorts.

“These are your clothes. You could wash them again your damn self,” I retorted.

He grabbed my arm and yanked me up to his level.

“Don’t tempt me,” he muttered through his grinding teeth.

I stared blankly into his beady, little eyes.

“I just did,” I said with no hesitation.

His tight grip briefly stopped my blood flow, leaving red marks on my arm as he finally let go. He stormed out of the house and into the front yard stretching his arms out from side to side as if surrendering him out of this torn relationship.

That’s when she walked over.

Even-tanned, brunette with itty-bitty white shorts and a baby black tee. I stayed behind the pillar.

“Hey,” she said flirtatiously.

“Hey,” he said back with a smile I haven’t seen in over six months.

He put his arms down and walked over to her.

“I’m trying to find my cat,” she said brushing her hair away from her perfect complexion.

“I’m sorry to hear that,” he said with genuine concern.

“What’s its name?” he asked.

“It’s a He and it’s ‘Scout,’ mine’s ‘L’…"she trailed off. (I couldn’t make it out.)

“Nice to meet you. Now let’s scout for ‘Scout,’” he giggled.

That’s how he has always been. So sweet to strangers, pretty ones at that. And there I stood behind the pillar watching how a ‘nobody’ ignited a side of him I used to see.

Aging Youth

I woke up in tears from this dream sadly realizing that it is becoming more of a reality.

The entire family is sitting in her living room. The very first place we truly called "home" in the United States. Serious faces, no laughter. Not like our usual get-togethers anymore. She sits calmly in a chair in the corner, small and frail, wrapped in a pink bathrobe. Almost in a daze, she looks up at the white ceiling and dozes off.

I just watch her, recalling the days in which she would boast about how strong she was and how powerful her memory continued to be. A religious woman who followed tradition as if it were the only way and now she sits, unable to move without assistance as her thoughts leave her one by one. I wonder why it is that the two things she prided herself on the most were being taken away from her like a spoiled brat torn from their favorite toy.

Her five daughters pay no attention to her. Her youngest son leads the discussion of what is to become of her as if it were some kind of business meeting. Almost all of them were ready to let her go. Having to discuss when and where they could arrange “watching” her. As adults, they act like children. Whining that a moment with their mother would interfere with their schedules and yet they find it surprising that she would not want to be anywhere else besides with her eldest son.

He leaves the circle and does what he does best, takes care of things that need to be taken care of: making sure she is still breathing. Her body helplessly plops down into his arms. He catches her in shock that this time no air entered her lungs. The others slowly stood up, hands covering their mouths. Fake tears start to form on their faces.

Then she starts to shrink. Her skin carefully smoothing out the wrinkles of age, her gray hair sheds revealing her regained youth. Nobody reacts. In a matter of minutes, there in the corner chair, on top of the pink bathrobe, lies a baby.

The daughters rejoice. Each one wants to take turns holding this beautiful, innocent child as if it were their own. The youngest son puts down his notepad and walks over.

Real life somehow found its way into these dead souls.

When at her worst, she is abandoned with the son she deemed as the “black sheep," the only one she remembers while the rest are just strangers in a strange place she used to call “home.”
They discarded her as an old woman as if in fear that this will become their fate with time, yet they embraced her youth as if the slightest touch could turn back the clock.

Her eldest son chose to face the facts as he quietly leaves the room, mourning the loss of their mother.

Age is inevitable.

I Am...

I am everything you thought I wasn't. I turn on/off like a light switch and have mood swings as fast as the weather changes in L.A. Pedicures are my stress relief, but I get them once in a blue moon. So, yes I'm still stressed. I love green vegetables, but hate peas and anything pea-like. Carrots are coming along thanks to my bestfriend, but very slowly so that's why I now wear glasses, which are unfortunatley tilted to the left and always being misplaced. I break out into hives when I drink, but I have a better time if I'm too buzzed to know I'm really bored. I read only non-fiction because if I wanted to picture something in my head, I'd go watch a movie instead. I hate all movies until they give me reason to love them, buy them, absorb them. I quote stuff because I can't say it any better and make-up words like "kaloo" "boohead" just to make it stick better than your average pet name. I miss my pet Cinnamon very much that it makes it harder everyday to look outside my bedroom window, which used to be Mama's room for the last 26 years...I wish Mama peace of mind since her family is falling apart like her memory. And the strength for us to find a way to get back together again. I love just being with my family because through it all they always find a way to make me laugh. My sisters know me better than I know myself. My mom can say all the wrong things at the right moments but can calm me down like water to a lit match. My dad takes care of things like that was his only purpose in life and it feels good to come home with dinner on the table and a dying candle's scent permeating the room. My LOML and I have come to a dramatic turn of events, yet he knows in his heart that I'm the one. And that alone is reason enough to get up, start over, do something, talk to a friend, write a blog, hug a loved one, text a joke, appreciate, live, love, and go to bed.

Birthday Blogs

2007

Dear June,

So we meet again. The years keep rolling by and yet no matter how many times it arrives, your second day still never fails me. Even though I've been rained on, put down, left out, and forced to grow up I always save one day out of the year devoted entirely to me.

A day when I refuse to work. A day without meeting deadlines, paying bills, dealing with traffic, waiting for anything, eating right (whatever that means), going to the gym (lol!), crying, cleaning, and of course my ultimate favorite analyzing drama. This is my day. A day filled with laughter, Betty Boop trinkets, Tori music, chocolate blueberry truffles, passion fruit iced tea, vanilla lattes, soft pillows, cloudy weather, dark blues, happy faces, hugs&kisses and lotsa shoes! Topped off with an extra special dose of relaxation and great conversation. It's doing whatever the hell I feel like it because I can.

Happy Birthday to me is a fresh start. A time to look forward to; that even for a moment I'm a kid again and everything is something to explore! It's not about what I get, but about the people who are willing to show they care. It's wonderful seeing my sisters going crazy, thinking outside of the box just to plan the day's events: spa treatments, caffeine buzz, and beautiful memories. It's about Ate being the first to greet me every year. It's about Bea having to deal with waking me up in the morning and getting me dressed to feel beautiful. It's about mommy dancing around and daddy's homecookin'. It's about a family dinner for one night simply to spoil the hell out of me! It's about Pamela wrapping pretty little somethings up so that I don't want to rip the paper when I open them. It's about my LOML calling a little passed midnight even with so many things on his plate just to tell me, "Goose, I love you."

It's about those special few who took the time to leave a comment, send a text, call, write, and just remember to show up and say, "Hi."

Thank you for giving me something to smile about.

Love you,

ME

2006

Second of June. I have the urge to be dramatic. Maybe its the music or the fact that the sun's making its way up to welcome such a wonderful day. Whatever the reason, I of course can't sleep and listening compilations provoke me even more to write about what's on my mind. When do I let my head rest?

I'm alone and in front of you, blog. Staring at the glare of this computer screen through the blur of my blind eyes (I'm not wearing my glasses). My left shoulder's throbbing. Both my wrists are sore from the pressure of all this tapping on the keyboard. Been dizzy since yesterday. Feel like a lollipop. Somehow I'll get to the point.

I can't help but think a lot about everyone I've ever met in my entire life. Where are they? What are they doing? Do they think of me? How can they mean so much to me then, only to care less now? It saddens me a little, but frustrates me tremendously. What the hell is the point of consuming myself with the idea that all that I did went to waste? That the people that were a part of who I was, no longer define me as the person I am today? I could stress on this forever. This would explain the dizziness.

I have come to terms with the fact that nothing is permanent in life. Things change for us to grow. People come and go. And those that really matter, those who have no choice (my family) well, thats the only solid thing I've got.

TORI MIX

(lyrical pieces from Tori Amos' songs)

I remember, yes in my peach party dress. No one dared. No one cared to tell me where the pretty girls are. Those demigods with their nine-inch nails and little fascist panties tucked inside the heart of every nice girl. These precious things. Let them bleed. Let them wash away...

All the world is all I am. The black of the blackest ocean and the tear in your hand. All the world is danglin'...dangling'...danglin' for me darlin.' You don't know the power that you have with that tear in your hand.

Make me laugh. Say you know what you want. You said we were the real thing. So I show you some more and I learn what black magic can do. Make me laugh. Say you know you can turn me into the real thing. So I show you some more and I learn.

And I hate elevator music. The way we fight. The way I'm left here silent. Oh these little earthquakes. Doesn't take much to rip us into pieces.

You say the word. You know I will find you. Or if you need some timeI don't mind. I don't hold onto the tail of your kite. I'm not like the girls that you've known, but I believe I'm worth coming home to. Kiss away night. This girl only sleeps with butterflies. So go on and fly then boy. Balloons look good from on the ground. I fear with pins and needles around we may fall then stumble.

Cause sometimes I said sometimes I hear my voice and it's been here. Silent All These...Years go by will I still be waiting for somebody else to understand? Years go by if I'm stripped of my beauty and the orange clouds raining in head. Years go by will I choke on my tears til finally there is nothing left. One more casualty you know we're too easy, easy, easy. Well, I love the way we communicate. Your eyes focus on my funny lip shape. Let's hear what you think of me now, but baby don't look up. The sky is falling.

And i put the hood right back where you could taste heaven perfectly...

the haunting past

Why do I always look into the past to figure out what the hell is going on at this moment in time? Simple. It made me who I am today. Someone once told me, how am I suppose to move on if I keep turning around to face the opposite direction? I'm just now starting to realize the common sense of this question. I know I've recently tried to let go by opening a closed chapter. To let go of anger, pain, resentment, sadness, all of which has made me doubt that good things can happen to good people. And it feels like I've healed that part of my life. This was never about anyone else, but me. I hate to an endless degree, but love like no other. I live by extremes emotionally. And when that's broken, it can never be what it once was. I know the diffence between my "past" and my "present." Then, I moved in constant circles. Even with someone, I was still alone. Now, I'm moving forwards. I'm tired of being dizzy. This was never a competition, but a choice I had made even before there was anyone willing to stick by me to choose from. I said what I had to say. Took out my aggression on the one who deserved to hear it. And am no longer angry. I don't do things half-ass. So take it as you will. I will always be true to myself.